Porn addiction is the compulsive watching or reading of pornographic materials.
How do I know if I am an addict?
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Causes of porn addiction
There are a number of reasons people get addicted to porn, but put simply, people, for the most part, become addicted to porn because of;
Julian Redwood adds that online porn is primarily about the ‘hunt’. People will search for hours on end to find that perfect clip that gives them that sought-after high. Unfortunately, this is often done at the expense of the addict’s family, partner, social, and professional life.
Authors of ‘Toxic Porn’, describe the 5 stages of pornography addiction:
Early exposure: More often than not, addiction comes from watching porn at a young age, this is when it gets its foot in the door.
Addiction: Next comes addiction, it becomes an integral part of your daily life. You are hooked and you cannot quit it.
Escalation: You begin to look for more and more graphic porn, you begin to seek out porn that at the beginning would have disgusted you, now it excites you.
Desensitization: Eventually, you start to become numb. Even the most graphic, degrading porn doesn’t excite you anymore. You become desperate to feel the same thrill again but can’t find it.
Acting out sexually: Eventually, many men make a dangerous jump and start acting out sexually. They move from the paper and plastic images of porn to the real world
“The greatest battle is not physical but psychological. The demons telling us to give up when we push ourselves to the limit can never be silenced for good. They must always be answered by the quiet, steady dignity that simply refuses to give in. Courage. We all suffer. Keep going” –
Like any addiction, recovery is a difficult process. But we are here to help! David Kavanagh is a registered systemic family therapist based in Dundrum, Co. Dublin. He has 12 years of experience working with clients dealing with a range of issues under his belt. David has a keen interest in the impact of sex addiction in Irish Society and has been monitoring it for over ten years now.
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